Tinker, I dont mind discussion, hence why I posted here.
I just had hoped the discussion would have fit the question. As Ive said, I bear you no ill will. No my feelings were not hurt; but I was frustrated. Again I truly do value you the knowledge you shared; but as I said you (perhaps we) were missing the point. Yes I used the phrase "Stopping Gun" and perhaps I should have explained it better. I used that phrase to describe the size of the cartridge over a smaller parlor gun. Assuming I pick an unworthy cartridge, I certainly wont have you to blame. I particularly want to thank you for the information on the custom cartridge company

Again I thank you for your suggestions and only now wish youd offer a name choice