There is no "one size fits all" solution to making paper patch bullets work.
Depends on your barrel/rifling, leade, bullet temper, bullet style, paper type/thickness, over powder wads, lube, etc. etc. Personal technique comes into it as well.......
There may be an "average" suggested way to get "average" results, but messing with paper patch simply takes a lot of personal investment in reading/study then trial and error. Simple spoon feeding, especially via internet, will not add much to potential success.