Bigdog,

First I'd like to offer my sincerest condolences. This really hit home as my wife is currently in and out of labor with our first child, a son. Unfortunately in my job I see death almost everyday. However a few years ago I lost a family (30 years old) member after a rapid fight with a rare cancer. It was then I truly realized nothing can prepare you for such a loss, no matter what the circumstances.

However that said I'd also like to congratulate you and your departed son on the noble act of organ donation. Through his and your family's tragedy others will live. I'll guarantee that not only will your family remember him but those on the receiving end of his life giving gifts won't ever forget him either.

So I'll be saying a prayer and drinking a toast to you, your family and your departed son.

Best Wishes,

Bill