Hey Man, any time you want to drop a message go ahead and write me.
Thank God I haven't lost a child, but in the last year and a half I've lost one of the best friends I ever had -- he died in my hands -- and both of my parents. All of them were young.
You're going to need to be square with your emotions as they come around, you'll be running the gamut for sure.

Know that whatever's going on that you're completely welcome to drop a line and say or ask anything you want.

Bless you and your family, Bless your little boy.

--Tinker