G'Day Fella's,

I feel for you both but you have to remember that if or when you hit Rock Bottom, Don't Forget To Bounce, back up!!!
I have had my share of less than pleasant things happen in my life and I hit Rock Bottom!
I didn't like it down there, so I Bounced back up and I'm currently going great guns!!!

I have heard a number of great sayings when I have been over in New Zealand hunting and one of the best is, "Tough Times Go, Tough People Stay"!

So it's best to focus your attention on what You Still Have!
But obviously, Never Forget what you have lost!!!

Sorry fella's, I'm not a doctor, I've just been through The Mill of Hard Knocks and I learn't from it!

Hope that helps

Best Wishes!
Homer