Make it 11 hugs and tell her one is from me. I am with you on the trust issue. My kids were all shooting at a young age with close supervision. They think of guns as a tool and respect them. The can shoot to protect themselves if the need ever arises. Not paranoid, just prepared in my opinion. I did not want them growing up afraid of them nor in total awe of them.Kyle started at four and got in 10 years of shooting and hunted a lot his last 4 years. He was my number one shooting partner. I picture him with me every time I go shooting. He is with me still.