Mike
You might try a Leupold 1.5-5. I like the heavy duplex.

Also you should mount the scope far foward. If your neck is already stretched out before you shoot there is less of a chance for your head to get a "running start" toward the scope.

If your neck is already stretched out then your head will recoil back with the rifle.

Also maintain a firm shoulder until after the recoil. If you relax your shoulder just as you shoot your shoulder colaspses allowing the rifle/scope to travel back toward your head.

Scope foward, firm shoulder, hard cheek contact with the stock.
Your whole upper body should take the recoil.